There is a pattern in what happens to us. The question is to figure out what the pattern is. Every second of our life we are creating something with our thinking. Good or bad, all comes from the fruits of our thinking.
Humanity is in connection with each other. The theater, the movies, TV's and videos, all want to tell humanity that a tragic end, a nuclear war is coming with cruelty, roughness, maybe some kindness, goody-goodyness dropped in the middle, followed by the biggest tragic and if the writer is positive, ends up with finding peace, freedom and happiness only for the young couple in the middle of rubbles and deaths. They try to persuade the public, that it has to happen, rubbing it in that light comes after the darkest and everybody has to die. Is it?, Should it?
In reality I believe, that when we become like little children, forgive the past, forgive all who was not kind to us, that is the reborning and we do not have to die, we can live our life in peace and true happiness here, where we are now. To that we have to learn discipline, kindness and find the self confidence, that whatsoever we do, it is necessary for our own lessons, and the lessons will follow us all our life until we are in this realm.
We hear these over and over:
Do not lean upon your own understanding,
Always follow your feelings.
If you have no decision, know that it is not time to decide yet, which means, do not let yourself be pushed into something, which is not your idea. Only if you see the logic that it is really better then what you thought out.